The earth seemed to be moving under my feet as divorce and fear of the future became my reality. There was so much uncertainly. Would I be okay? Could I recover financially? How would I overcome loneliness? Would I ever be loved again? I wanted something to cling to that would provide me stability. The […]
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Are you struggling to understand what the Scriptures say about divorce? Has divorce left you confused about your relationship with God? If you answered yes to either or both of these questions, you’re not alone. To fully understand the Scriptures about divorce it’s important to look at the context and times in which they were […]
“How do I forgive my ex? Do you really believe I can?” Yes, I actually believe it is an important thing to do. Forgiving someone who has wronged you can seem like a pretty far-fetched idea. And, there are a lot of realities that may make forgiving your ex hard. I hear them all the […]
Divorce anxiety seemed to loom so large that I lived with my fists clenched. It was one way my body dealt with the tension. I often clinched my fists without even realizing it. Divorce can do that to you. A pastor friend noticed one day. Then he looked at his hands and clenched his fists […]
Post Update: As of September 1, 2020 FOX news is reporting that divorces are now up 34%. This announcement makes Christian divorce support groups more important to churches and communities than ever. Please read the original post below for more information. Take uncertainty, intense media reports, financial instability, and other stresses of a pandemic and […]
Obsessing over my divorce seemed unavoidable. How could everything have gone so wrong? It was like the earth was moving under my feet. I tried to make sense of it all. How could I have ended up dealing with divorce? Why did he do this or that? What should I have done differently? Adding to […]
It is a haunting question…Is God mad at me because of divorce? As a Christian you know God doesn’t like divorce. You know marriage is a sacred covenant meant to last a lifetime. You married with the intention of forever but despite your best efforts it didn’t turn out that way. So the question lingers, […]
Co-parenting when your ex has different values from your own can be frustrating. As a Christian you want your children to grow up with Christian values. But, what do you do when their other parent is living with a very different set of values? How can you control for the negative influence this might be […]
How can I keep my ex’s girlfriend away from my child? My ex is already dating and wants to introduce our child to this new woman. I don’t want that person to have anything to do with my child,” says Katie. It’s a question I often hear…Can I keep my ex’s girlfriend away from my […]
Coping with loneliness during separation and divorce magnifies as darkness falls. The nights can be the worst. When the losses and uncertainties of divorce become magnified, our bodies tire and our minds grow wearier. Being lonely turns our focus inward. So What Can You Do? Shift your focus. Coping with loneliness during separation and divorce […]
Divorce left me wondering, how can I get over an ex who hurt me deeply? Can I ever let go of the painful memories? I think I had a deep fear that the pain would weigh down my heart forever. Do you wonder the same? When Being Done Wrong Still Hurts The truth of what […]
Are you looking for peace after divorce but realize that the emotions of divorce have you feeling paralyzed? When that sense of immobility sets in it can be hard to know where to turn. You can feel stuck. Sandra tells us her story and cites some pretty important points she’s learned about getting unstuck. With […]
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